The Struggle of a Sales Leader
As a sales leader managing a team of 15 reps, I was having a really tough week. Nothing seemed to be going right – no one was responding to our outreach, deals were stalling, and the whole team was feeling the pressure. I was starting to get down on myself and question whether I was cut out for this role. Have you ever been there before? That feeling of frustration and self-doubt when your sales team is struggling and you can’t seem to find a way to turn things around. It’s one of the toughest parts of being a sales leader. You want to motivate your team and find a solution, but sometimes it feels like you’re just spinning your wheels. That’s exactly where I found myself on that particular day. I was sitting at my desk, staring at the numbers, feeling completely defeated. And that’s when a fellow CEO and friend of mine walked into my office.A Chance Encounter That Changed Everything
He took one look at me and could tell I was struggling. Without saying a word, he gestured for me to follow him. I was a bit confused, but I got up and followed him out to his car. He drove us to a local pub and as we sat down, he looked at me and said, “I don’t want to hear a word from you.” I was taken aback, but I stayed silent. Then he leaned in and said, “Listen, there are no shortcuts in sales. There are actually no shortcuts in life. You’re trying to shortcut processes that you simply can’t shortcut. You’re trying to reach people who aren’t reacting, and you just need to wait. You need to find a way to go with the flow. Once you accept that, you’ll do way better in business.” His words hit me like a ton of bricks. I had been so focused on trying to force things to happen, to find some kind of shortcut or hack that would magically turn things around. But he was right – that’s not how sales works. You have to put in the hard work, day in and day out, and trust the process. After that, we had a few beers and just chatted. But something had shifted in my mindset. I felt a weight lifted off my shoulders. I realized that I needed to stop beating myself up and just get back to the basics.Applying the Lesson
When I got back to the office, I took a fresh look at all the deals we had in the pipeline. Instead of trying to force them to move forward, I decided to take a step back and just focus on reaching out to new prospects. I went back to the fundamentals – making calls, sending emails, booking meetings. And you know what happened? After a few days, those stalled deals started to pick up again. Prospects who had gone dark suddenly re-engaged, and we ended up having a really strong quarter. It was a powerful lesson that I’ve carried with me ever since. There really are no shortcuts in sales. You have to put in the work, day in and day out, and trust that if you stay consistent and keep going, the results will come.The Importance of Continuous Learning
Another key thing I learned from this experience is the value of continuous learning. When I’m feeling stuck or my mind is cluttered, one of the things that always helps me is to learn something new – whether it’s a new physical exercise, a new skill, or just diving into a new topic that interests me. As Michael Humblet, the founder of Chaomatic and School of Sales, says, “Learning a physical exercise that you’ve never done before is a great way to clear your mind and get unstuck.” It forces you to focus on something new and different, and can help you gain a fresh perspective. I’ve found this to be true time and time again. Whenever I’m feeling overwhelmed or like I’m just spinning my wheels, taking the time to learn something new – whether it’s a new sales technique, a new software tool, or even just a new hobby – can be a game-changer.Embracing the Grind
The other key lesson I took away from this experience is the importance of embracing the grind. As my friend said, “there are no shortcuts in sales.” You have to be willing to put in the hard work, day in and day out, and trust that if you stay consistent, the results will come. Too often, I see sales reps and leaders looking for the quick fix, the magic bullet that’s going to transform their results overnight. But the reality is, sales is a long game. It’s about building relationships, nurturing leads, and consistently executing on the fundamentals. That’s why it’s so important to have the right mindset and to be willing to put in the work. As Michael Humblet says, “You have to do the work. There are no shortcuts.” And that’s exactly what I did. I went back to the basics – making calls, sending emails, booking meetings. I didn’t try to force anything, I just trusted the process and kept grinding away. And you know what happened? Those stalled deals started to pick up again, and we ended up having a really strong quarter. It was a powerful reminder that there’s no substitute for hard work and consistency in sales.Incorporating the Lesson into Your Sales Strategy
So, what can you take away from this experience and apply to your own sales strategy? Here are a few key things to keep in mind:- Embrace the grind: Sales is a long game, and there are no shortcuts. Be willing to put in the hard work, day in and day out, and trust the process.
- Focus on the fundamentals: When things get tough, go back to the basics – making calls, sending emails, booking meetings. Don’t try to force things, just keep executing on the fundamentals.
- Continuously learn and grow: Make a habit of learning new things, whether it’s a new sales technique, a new software tool, or a new hobby. This can help you gain a fresh perspective and get unstuck.
- Cultivate the right mindset: As Chaomatic says, “Your mindset is everything.” Believe in yourself, stay positive, and don’t get discouraged by setbacks.




